If we allow ourselves the time to observe ourselves deeply, especially what we think and feel, we will clearly see many things in relation to others that are not what we think they are.

I start from the base of my experience with many who suffer from misconceptions, but do not realize it. For them it is exactly how they see it and it does not fit in their mind that it could be different. Here it does not depend on any action or word spoken to anger them, it is simply how they perceive others. The big problems that lead to suffering are when they affect our closest ones such as family, friends, co-workers or neighbours. The misperception that people have of each other is the seed of many misunderstandings.

Each one of us sees life with the colours and intensity that these have for each of us. This vision is affected by many factors: how we were educated, our experiences and the preparation with which we arrived on the planet; to mention a few. Our world spins with that information. When we pay attention to others, we qualify them with our judgments and create our version of how they are, what they do and how they react in life. We can only use the colours we have.

Observe carefully. When you see anyone with your available colours, you are seeing a reflection of what you have created. Careful! That person is going to behave in your world exactly as you see them. You are manifesting your thoughts through them. Attention! That person is totally different from how you imagine them, but you cannot see them that way, because you have already judged them. This works for the positive and the negative. It may be that you see a person who impresses you a lot: months or years later you realize that you were wrong. The opposite is also common. You may dislike someone, but when you get to know them better you are surprised at how blind you were to that individual.

Do you know yourself? Do you know who you are, what you do and why you do it? If you don’t know yourself, you can’t know others. It doesn’t matter how close they are. Don´t fool yourself.

I am the force of life and so are you.

Those of you who have questions can ask me them openly or privately. I will answer when I can. Those of you who are on social media, give it a “like”. You don’t know how many you can help. (I realise many of you are not on social media).

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